Of course being 400lbs is not the acceptable desired weight by society, nor is it contributing to a healthy lifestyle. After considering these factors I can honestly say I don’t care what people think.  I have been skinny for most parts of my life,  but never fully happy with my body. I've always thought I was too fat. lol  Ironic isn’t it.  Being fat has been the best decision I’ve ever made, it makes me feel sexy, sensual, and extremely womanly. Basically this is the happiest I’ve ever been about my body and my life.